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Aug 2023
24m 18s

Benson Knows Best: MEN AREN’T DUMB

Violet Benson
About this episode

Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use. 


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:01 The best revenge is to move on
  • 05:40 How to be the It Girl?
  • 13:05 Ways to let go and move on
  • 19:02 Ghosting tricks


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