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Aug 2023
23m 7s

Expectations In Dating

The Angry Therapist
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In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage. John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th!   Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst natur ... Show More
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