In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage.
John and Vanessa are launching their second ever couples retreat on Sept 8-10th! Escape to Idyllwild, California, for an unforgettable weekend retreat tailored exclusively for couples. Nestled amidst natur ... Show More
Today
When Your Partner Can’t Meet Your Needs… Do You Stay or Go?
In this module of the video course, we explore what really happens inside relationships when two people are trying — and struggling — to grow.
We talk about emotional language, repair, anger, shutdown, nervous-system responses, and what it means to feel safe with someone for the ... Show More
27m 40s
Nov 24
Going Rogue: The Truth About Becoming Yourself
In this raw, unfiltered reflection, John shares the real story behind going rogue as a therapist — from coffee-shop sessions to walk-and-talks, to breaking every rule therapy school ever taught him.
He explores the lifelong pattern of exchanging truth for membership, the fear of ... Show More
22m 27s
Jul 2023
EP 72. Making My Life More Meaningful
Hi, Girlypops! Happy Monday and welcome to another episode where our host, Ally, gives you some life updates and chats with you for a few minutes. She then goes right into a couple of topics of this week's submissions where we talk about experiencing growth through a positive ... Show More
37m 39s
Jul 2023
Candid Confessions: This is what happened. Again!
<p>I believe breakups, divorces and infidelity nightmares come down to a lack of intimacy in relationships, which of course comes down to a lack of intimacy with ourselves. We're all doing our best, yet when any of us get close to the core vein of pain, that childhood wound, that ... Show More
59m 13s