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Aug 2023
1h 7m

Are Toxic Relationships Addicting?

Xhejlan Demiri and Tori Franco
About this episode

Welcome to another eye-opening episode of the XTRA Gay Podcast! In this thought-provoking installment, we dive deep into the intricate web of toxic relationships, unraveling the inexplicable allure they possess and the perilous pitfalls they conceal. Join us on this enlightening journey as we peel back the layers of toxic relationships, uncovering the intricate dynamics that keep us ensnared, and ultimately, discovering the strength within to break free. If you've ever questioned the allure of toxicity or sought guidance on extricating yourself from such a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Remember, knowledge is power, and together, we'll untangle the threads of toxic relationships to pave the way for a future filled with genuine connections and personal growth. Don't miss out – hit that play button now!


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