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Aug 2021
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toxic relationships: it’s not me, it’s y...

SEPHY AND WING
About this episode

is "toxicity" nothing more than a beloved buzzword for girls that are obsessed with crystals, self-diagnosing, and andy from headspace? is there nuance and worthwhile substance in the "toxic relationship" conversation? are we all inherently "toxic", or just jaded and judgemental? all of these questions (and more!) will likely remain unanswered in this wild and chaotic episode of Goes Without Saying. sephy & wing reflect on their own destructive relationships, communication patterns, and attachment styles, whilst breaking down problematic romances, friendships, and family dynamics. alexa, play toxic by britne-- alexa, play goes without saying podcast with sephy and wing.


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