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Aug 2023
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Intersex Joy, Activism Burnout, and Bein...

Danielle Bezalel, MPH: Sex Educator | Pleasure Expert | Rom-Com Critic
About this episode

We're thrilled to welcome back Pidgeon Pagonis, a powerhouse in intersex education and advocacy! From their #EndIntersexSurgeries campaign to their continual focus on prioritizing intersex joy, their recent endeavors are nothing short of inspiring. Pidgeon shares more about their activist journey, highlighting the need for self-care to avoid burnout in this work. DB and Pidgeon also discuss the healing power of psychedelics, and Pidgeon's transition from a trauma-focused narrative to one of joy and self-discovery. We also get a sneak peek into Pidgeon's new book "Nobody Needs to Know," available everywhere books are sold.

(0:11:57) - Pidgeon's #EndIntersexSurgeries activism Discussing successes in intersex representation, #EndIntersexSurgeries campaign, and holding hospitals accountable.

(0:17:46) - Managing Burnout in Activism Pidgeon discusses progress in intersex visibility, activism resources, and conservative ideology being pushed in public schools.

(0:29:32) - Intersex Activism and Personal Healing

(0:42:06) - Ketamine's Power in Reconnecting With Body Pidgeon shares their journey with trauma healing through psychedelics, and their dream of creating intersex retreats to foster joy and healing.

Find more from Pidgeon:

Instagram: @Pidgeon

http://pid.ge/

Pidgeon Pagonis, M.A. (Chicago, IL) has worked for over a decade as an intersex advocate, speaker, consultant, photographer and filmmaker to shed light on the human rights violations endured by intersex people. Their goal is to help end the non-consensual irreversible medical procedures meant to discipline unruly intersex bodies. Pidgeon’s accessible advocacy helps people complicate their preconceived binary notions about “biological differences”. Their work has been essential for those who want to show up for intersex people in their lives, but aren’t sure where to start.

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