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Aug 2023
53m 25s

Learning to Be Unapologetically Yourself...

Ilana Dunn
About this episode
I'm joined by Laura Belgray, author of the book "Tough Titties: On Living Your Best Life When You’re the F-ing Worst" to discuss how to let go of what other people and society expect of you. We chat about embracing your flaws, owning your timeline, not comparing yourself to others, how your worth doesn't need to be attached to someone else liking you, and mo ... Show More
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