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Jul 2023
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Ep. 439: Suggest the Default Option, Ski...

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project
About this episode

We talk about how we can make planning easier by suggesting the default option

of time and place when coordinating with other people. We also discuss the

suggestion to skip a year of an enjoyable activity, if it starts to feel onerous, as a

way to keep it fun. Plus we review even more everyday luxuries suggested by

listeners.

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