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Jul 2023
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662 - JJ Went from Being in a Sexless Ma...

Kathy Kay
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JJ went from being in a sexless marriage to one were they’re swinging and he called in to talk all about it. How did he wind up in a sexless marriage? When did he realize he was addicted to sex? And, how did he wind up swinging?! Tune in to hear all the details including how he started dating his future wife early on and how and why they never had sex, how porn became his substitue and how and why his wife was not ok with that, so he started looking at porn and she was not ok with it, how he started cheating on her while out and about with her brother and how and why that led to his divorce, how his sex addiction contributed to his marital issues and how and why he can now take accountability for it, how went into recovery and how he kicked his porn habit, what sobriety looks like for him now, how he met his current wife and how it was super sexual from the very first night, how she turned him on to bdsm and how they set up daddy/sub thing right from the get go, how she started sexting him about hooking up with other guys and how that led to them role playing the scenario and how and why that totally turned him on, how they eventually decided to live out their mfm threesome fantasy and exactly what went down the first time and what he loved most about it, how and why they then decided to find couples to hook up with and what went dow with them, the hotel takeover party they attended that led them to their first orgy and exactly what went down, how and why his wife started her own Onlyfans and how and why he takes part in the videos as well and why it’s turns him on, the high profile athlete follows her and the kinky thing they do with him, how they now are in a ethically non monogamous marriage and are currently hooking up together as well as solo, the rules they have surrounding their solo hook ups, how he can go have a successful booty call without having the girl fall for him plus a whole lot more.

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