Why do people do things they know are wrong and then try to rationalize their actions? In this episode, Jon and Alex examine the consequences of a partner knowingly crossing the line with another man, the problem with flirting in the workplace, how jealousy can put an irreparable rift between you and your partner, and when your best friend’s husband goes fr ... Show More
Aug 19
65. Giving you gifts, shared bank accounts, and loser husbands
What should you get your best friend for their birthday? According to Jon: Nothing. Zip. Zilch. Nada. In today’s episode, we’re talking MONEY, HONEY and the expectations surrounding gift giving. Jon gets pretty heated in this one, so you may want to lower the volume on your speak ... Show More
1h 9m
Aug 12
64. Giving you sibling dynamics, inheritances, and baby names
“You know you’re adopted, right? I’m telling mom!” In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss sibling relationships and how you can be best friends as kids and enemies as adults. Your “built-in best friend” doesn’t sound so great when they’re stealing your inheritance or pickin ... Show More
1h 17m
Aug 5
63. Giving you dry spells, threesomes, and male enhancements
Trying to keep the spark alive in your relationship? Used every match in the box but nothing ignites? Maybe it’s time to give up…or just listen to Alex and Jon. In this week’s episode, they talk about ways to reinvigorate your relationship, from the 2-2-2 rule all the way to meta ... Show More
1h 17m
Sep 2022
Can A Player Change? w/ Neil Strauss
Besties, throughout September we covered all things personal growth and really checked in with each other. So the best way to end this month is by talking to Neil Strauss, a ten-time New York Times best-selling author. His books, The Game and Rules Of The Game, for which he went ... Show More
51m 9s
Feb 2024
2 Ways Your 'Icks' Are Ruining Your Dating Life & #1 Way to Date Better with Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham
How do your 'icks' affect your dating life? And what's the ultimate key to better dating? Today, Jay is sharing the conversation he had with Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham where he was being interviewed in their podcast, U Up?. The U Up? is a definitive modern dating podcast whe ... Show More
41m 34s
Jul 2022
He’s Wasting Your Time w/ Patti Stanger
Read it and weep besties. It’s the truth. Stop wasting your time over a boy who just wants you around to boost his ego, to do his bidding, and to make himself more attractive to other women. Boys are just now learning how to live without their mom doing their laundry for them, le ... Show More
1h 25m
Nov 2022
Ep 128: I Eat Baby on Board ft Thneed Girl aka Rachael
In This Episode: We bring on Rachael and go over Erika's new hobby, a glitch in the matrix, a bride who doesn't want pictures at her wedding, a coworker who thinks farts are an attraction, a grandma who "took care of" her family, and a guy who regrets leaving his wife. We also go ... Show More
1h 15m