Every time I heard someone say that I was too picky or my standards are too high I would get triggered and rightly so but the problem is people don't seem to differentiate between having high standards and having expectations.
In today's episode we deep dive into Your Dealbreakers, Your Standards, Your Expectations & Your Preferences.
It's crucial for us to ... Show More
May 2023
How Your Childhood Affects Your Adult Life
Childhood experiences can have a significant impact on our lives as adults. The relationships we form, the challenges we face, and the environments we grow up in can shape our beliefs, behaviors, and emotional responses. Positive childhood experiences such as a nurturing family, ... Show More
23m 33s
Mar 2023
194. "Are My Standards TOO High?" - A Much-Needed Conversation on Standards
Last week, we had a chat about what it looks like when your standards are actually conditions, and you’re too wishy-washy about standing firm in the standards you’ve set… This week, I want to talk about what happens when you’re TOO strict with your standard-setting, and it actual ... Show More
20m 2s
Mar 2023
193. Did You "Lower" Your Standards, Or Did You Just Have CONDITIONAL Standards?
I don’t actually believe in the idea of “lowering” your standards. I don’t believe that STANDARDS can be lowered. A standard is something that just IS. It is the way things are, no unless, ifs, ands, or buts… And if you disagree, I’m willing to bet you haven’t been setting standa ... Show More
21m 7s
Dec 2022
(Matt Monday): Should You Lower Your Standards?
As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, don’t we? And yet, have you ever worried that you’re being too picky? And have you ever wondered if this “pickiness” ... Show More
6m 11s
Apr 2023
lower your expectations about people [video]
[video available on Spotify] we often find ourselves disappointed with other people. there are times when we set realistic expectations for people, such as expecting somebody to treat you with respect, or to follow the law and not steal from you or harm you. those are realistic, ... Show More
46m 55s