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Jun 2023
36m 37s

what if you are the problem? [video]

Emma Chamberlain
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[video available on Spotify] i feel like the automatic response to a problem or conflict is to blame everyone and everything other than ourselves. it's not very automatic to run into a problem and immediately ask, did this problem arise or did this conflict happen because i did something wrong? for the last two years, i've been working on asking myself if th ... Show More
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