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Jun 2023
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1792: Is My Self-Hatred Getting in the W...

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino
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Tamsen Firestone talks about how self-hatred gets in the way of love

Episode 1792: Is My Self-Hatred Getting in the Way of Love? by Tamsen Firestone on Being in Love While Having Depression

Dr. Lisa Firestone is the Director of Research and Education at The Glendon Association. An accomplished and much requested lecturer, Dr. Firestone speaks at national and international conferences in the areas of couple relations, parenting, and suicide and violence prevention. Dr. Firestone has published numerous professional articles, including Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice (New Harbinger, 2002), Creating a Life of Meaning and Compassion: The Wisdom of Psychotherapy (APA Books, 2003) and The Self Under Siege (Routledge, 2012). 

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