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May 2023
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Trusting the deeper part of you that is ...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
Sometimes we fall in love before listening to our instincts and then get into a relationship that is definitely not healthy for us. There is a deeper part of us that we're supposed to listen to, but sometimes we don't. Things don't always work as planned when your heart leads the way. 
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