I’m joined by Carly Weinstein, content creator and host of Hot Girl Talks, to chat all about the biggest pain-points in modern dating. We discuss whether not having a sneaky link is holding you back from finding the real deal, being single in college for the first time, whether or not her social media presence impacts her dating life, how to navigate feeling ... Show More
Jul 8
Why You’re Still Stalking Your Ex and What Actually Helps You Heal
Breakups today aren’t just about letting go of a person — they’re about navigating texts, timelines, algorithmic reminders, and the pressure to "heal fast." Therapist and Lonely Hearts Club founder Lexi Joondeph-Breidbart joins Ilana to unpack what actually helps people move on, ... Show More
56m 8s
Jul 3
Lessons From the Ones Who Weren’t My Person
In this Unfiltered, a listener shares the hard truths she’s learned through dating, heartbreak, and situationships. From realizing you can’t force someone to like you, to learning that overcompromising and over-efforting doesn’t lead to love, she reflects on the patterns she’s fi ... Show More
1h 9m
Jun 2024
I Dated Like It Was A Job ft. Rachel Feinstein
We’re balancing out the seriousness with a lot of laughter as comedian Rachel Feinstein (@rachelfeinstein_) joins J&J on the pod for this Sunday Special. She’s married to a firefighter, but didn’t mean to be, so she recounts bad dates, awkward dumpings, and the lessons learned fr ... Show More
46m 43s
Nov 2023
Does Online Dating Increase Loneliness? With OkCupid's Michael Kaye
Dating apps are the most popular way to find romance in America. However, many people believe they cause more issues than they resolve. Some experts have opined that apps can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and rejection, for example. Also, a contingent of people have not tried ... Show More
29m 20s
Feb 2024
Kendall Jenner, AI and Sex Before OnlyFans
How is technology shifting how we think about sex? Can our virtual lives shape sex IRL? To explore these questions, Vanessa travels back to the 90s, recalling the week she spent at the very first cam girl house. Then she investigates the origins of chatroom sex and an early incid ... Show More
34m 25s
Jun 2020
62: TBF x We Met At Acme: Answering Your Dating and Relationship Questions
In this episode I talk to Lindsey Metselaar, host of the hit podcast We Met at Acme, about all things dating and relationships. We talk about dating apps, hookup culture and dating f*boys; how to make the first move and get what you want in a relationship; the dreaded "what are w ... Show More
40m 32s