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May 2023
30m 42s

Ep. 429: Try the Strategy of Unpairing, ...

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project
About this episode

We talk about why and how we should try the Strategy of Unpairing when trying to change a habit. We also discuss an easy way to get more exercise while traveling, and how to know when to accept ourselves—and when to expect more from ourselves. Plus a listener asks for suggestions for dealing more effectively with a Rebel father who resists help.

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