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May 2023
20m 35s

(Matt Monday): How to Make Them CHASE YO...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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We've all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we'll lose all our "power," but if we show too little, they may not even realize we're interested. In today's brand-new episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person.

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