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May 2023
33m 52s

#254 - Shaming Yourself Is Not A Virtue,...

Tarryn MacCarthy
About this episode

In this episode, Dr. Tarryn MacCarthy talks about the harmful effects of being too hard on yourself and how it can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and even depression. She shares a story of a patient's mother who was angry and trying to find blame. Being on the receiving end of anger like this can lead to feelings of disempowerment, fear, and anger. The evil twin of self-reflection will show its ugly head. You have to remember that it's not always about you. You can use one technique from the Radical Happiness course that will help you address the problem with the presence of mind and compassion. Then, you can find a plan or solution that will calm everyone involved.

Show notes:
[1:14] Being hard on yourself is not a badge of honor
[4:20] A patient's mom was trying to find the blame
[6:03] Feeling disempowered and fear stepping in
[9:42] Recipe for burnout, exhaustion, and depression
[11:52] The evil twin of self-reflection
[13:45] It's not about you
[15:20] Join The Radical Happiness For Practitioners Program to rediscover happiness within your profession and life. Check out https://www.thebizofhappiness.com/radicalhappiness
[16:31] A different perspective
[18:35] One technique from the Radical Happiness course
[23:30] Pulling the thoughts out of your head
[28:01] With calm and compassion, you can address the problem
[30:50] You can tap into your empowered place and have the presence of mind
[33:02] Outro


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