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May 2023
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#254 - Shaming Yourself Is Not A Virtue,...

Tarryn MacCarthy
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In this episode, Dr. Tarryn MacCarthy talks about the harmful effects of being too hard on yourself and how it can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and even depression. She shares a story of a patient's mother who was angry and trying to find blame. Being on the receiving end of anger like this can lead to feelings of disempowerment, fear, and anger. The evil tw ... Show More
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