#88. In this installment of Ask P, Payton is answering listener questions about trusting new friends, healing through a breakup, building a following on social media, and her birth control experience. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsarta ... Show More
Aug 13
What I Needed to Give Up in Order to Gain Peace (*somewhat controversial)
#259. A re-release of a favorite, Things I Left Behind to Gain Peace, and some of these may be rather controversial. In every era of my life, whenever I notice I’m a little on-edge, I realize I’m more often in need of releasing what doesn’t suit me rather than adding to my life. ... Show More
1h 4m
Aug 6
How Hard Can It Be? Boys Do It — & Other Musings with MadsMitch
#258. Maddy has been one of my favorite people to follow on socials for years, so when I found out we were crossing paths in Los Angeles, I had to have her on NTS. We’re chatting about her fresh (somewhat traumatizing?) start in LA, the parts of going viral nobody posts about, wh ... Show More
57m 30s
Jul 30
The Return of the Party Girl
#257. Why is the party girl suddenly everywhere again? This week I trace the shift from clean girl and tradwife aesthetics to a messier, freer moment — the culture, the politics, the history of partying through hard times — plus the party girl commandments and my hoe theory. FOLL ... Show More
53m 49s
Jun 2024
Enjoy Your 15 Minutes Because It's Gonna Be Up Soon
You guys asked and I answered. We cover a lot of questions regarding my kids, making friends in your 30s, getting over a broken heart, how weird fame is, jealousy, social media in a relationship, and how I'm able to trust being vulnerable again.A word from our sponsors:Nutrafol - ... Show More
45m 55s
Nov 2024
How to Be a Confident Queen
Answering listener questions about confidence when it comes to work, relationships, friendships, and dating. Plus, navigating the ending of an adult friendship.A word from my sponsors:ServPro - Visit SERVPRO.com or call 1-800-SERVPRO today. Bon Charge - BON CHARGE is having its c ... Show More
43m 26s
Oct 2024
The Girls are Fighting & How to Make Up!
On this candid episode, Alisha and Remi tackle listener questions, with Alisha sharing updates on her therapy journey and Remi navigating her cycle and other life stressors. From setting boundaries to TikTok rabbit holes, they spill all the tea on everything from bee pollen’s sup ... Show More
1h 7m
Jun 2021
How To Deal With Toxic Relationships, Mental Health, and Confidence
The girls are catching up and answering all of your questions this week! Ways to improve on mental health, tips on feeling more confident, how to be engaging on dating apps, navigating toxic relationships with family members, and so much more!
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44m 40s
Jul 2025
A Girl-Talk Q&A: Fashion, Therapy, ADHD & Everything in Between
This week on Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi are back with a juicy Q+A episode, answering all your burning questions—from our dogs' personalities to our current girl dinner obsessions. We’re chatting ADHD, anxiety, therapy, and how we're learning to set better routines (while still ... Show More
1h 18m