#88. In this installment of Ask P, Payton is answering listener questions about trusting new friends, healing through a breakup, building a following on social media, and her birth control experience. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsarta ... Show More
Oct 15
The Q4 Agenda: 20 Things to Do Before 2027
#268. Before I go on podcast-sabbatical, I’m leaving you with an assignment: your Q4 agenda.This isn’t a winter arc, a life reset, or a list of impossible habits to master before January; it’s 20 worthwhile things to do with the last few months of the year. Think: getting your mo ... Show More
55m 7s
Oct 8
3 Perspectives Making My Life Significantly Better Right Now
#267. This week, we’re talking about three ideas making my life materially better (none of them are for sale). Satisficing, raising my uncertainty threshold, and creating as a response to over-thinking. BTW– next week’s episode is my last episode before a fall break! FOLLOW PAYTO ... Show More
51m 14s
Oct 1
ASK P: breakups, post-college life, & virginity talk
#266. In this installment of ASK P, we’re hearing from listeners about surprise breakups, pending breakups, adapting to life post-college, and losing your virginity in your 20s. This is the last ASK P of 2026 — be back in 2027! FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonross https ... Show More
1 h
Jun 2024
Enjoy Your 15 Minutes Because It's Gonna Be Up Soon
You guys asked and I answered. We cover a lot of questions regarding my kids, making friends in your 30s, getting over a broken heart, how weird fame is, jealousy, social media in a relationship, and how I'm able to trust being vulnerable again.A word from our sponsors:Nutrafol - ... Show More
45m 55s
Nov 2024
How to Be a Confident Queen
Answering listener questions about confidence when it comes to work, relationships, friendships, and dating. Plus, navigating the ending of an adult friendship.A word from my sponsors:ServPro - Visit SERVPRO.com or call 1-800-SERVPRO today. Bon Charge - BON CHARGE is having its c ... Show More
43m 26s
Oct 2024
The Girls are Fighting & How to Make Up!
On this candid episode, Alisha and Remi tackle listener questions, with Alisha sharing updates on her therapy journey and Remi navigating her cycle and other life stressors. From setting boundaries to TikTok rabbit holes, they spill all the tea on everything from bee pollen’s sup ... Show More
1h 7m
Jun 2021
How To Deal With Toxic Relationships, Mental Health, and Confidence
The girls are catching up and answering all of your questions this week! Ways to improve on mental health, tips on feeling more confident, how to be engaging on dating apps, navigating toxic relationships with family members, and so much more!
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44m 40s
Jul 2025
A Girl-Talk Q&A: Fashion, Therapy, ADHD & Everything in Between
This week on Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi are back with a juicy Q+A episode, answering all your burning questions—from our dogs' personalities to our current girl dinner obsessions. We’re chatting ADHD, anxiety, therapy, and how we're learning to set better routines (while still ... Show More
1h 18m