John and Julie Gottman are two long-practicing psychologists and the founders of the aptly named Gottman Institute. Even if you aren’t familiar with their names, you’re likely familiar with the work they’ve done on relationships, including their groundbreaking relationship assessment tool, The Love Lab. (The Gottmans aren’t sponsoring this episode. We’re jus ... Show More
Jun 18
Attachment Styles, Love Languages, & Stronger Connections
Falling in love is often effortless. Staying in love is where the real work begins. Sarah sits down with attachment theory expert and founder of The Personal Development School, Thais Gibson, to explore what actually keeps love alive long after the honeymoon phase ends. Why do so ... Show More
55m 31s
Jun 11
The Cost of Seeing Clearly: When the Future You Imagined No Longer Exists
Have you ever wondered, “Why is this so hard to let go of when I know it is not right for me?”. In part 8 of our relationship series, we explore one of the most disorienting emotional experiences in relationships: The moment you realize you are not just losing a person, but a fut ... Show More
39m 9s
Jun 4
I loved who I thought they could be: The fantasy vs the reality of love
Part 7 of the Relationship SeriesHave you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered what you were seeing? Maybe you ignored red flags, held on to someone’s potential, or stayed attached to a future that never arrived.In this episode, Sarah explores the difference between th ... Show More
41m 49s
Aug 2025
406: The Psychology of Fame, Codependency and Reclaiming Your Life with Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a therapist, author and former high-powered talent agent. From navigating the high-glam world of modeling agencies to helping A-listers through rehab, Terri's journey from powerhouse talent agent to renowned psychotherapist is anything but ordinary. In this episode, ... Show More
55m 41s
Apr 2025
How To Handle Different Paces In Emotional Growth
When emotional growth happens at different paces in a relationship, it can create disconnection and frustration. This episode explores how partners can navigate this dynamic by cultivating curiosity, avoiding shame-based interpretations, and validating the complexity of individua ... Show More
47m 37s
Aug 2025
5 Habits That Will Ruin Your Relationship
In this episode, Jillian shares five powerful relationship boundaries you should never cross if you want your connection to last. From why saying “I need space” can cause unintended harm, to how silent treatment erodes trust, she breaks down the hidden damage these behaviors can ... Show More
31m 11s
Oct 2025
218. 10 hard TRUTHS about healthy relationships that will help you GROW 🤍 lessons in secure, REAL love 🙏🏼
Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will ... Show More
45m 19s
Oct 2022
The Best Way To Slide Into A Guy’s DMs ft. Case Kenny
On today’s episode, I sit down with Case Kenny, mindfulness expert and host of New Mindset, Who Dis podcast. We discuss breaking our own rules, letting other people's opinions influence our relationship, how Case went from not ready for a relationship to ready, why men remember c ... Show More
1h 13m
<p><strong>What if your patterns didn’t define you, but showed you EXACTLY where you can grow?</strong></p><p><strong>Why do we keep choosing the same people—even when we know better?</strong></p><p><strong>If you’ve felt luckless, stuck, or so far away from the loving partnershi ... Show More