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Mar 2023
13m 45s

Why Non-Negotiables Matter

High Performance
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“What are your three non-negotiables?” This is the question Jake and Damian ask at the end of every conversation they’ve had on the podcast. No two answers have been the same. In this episode, Jake and Damian reflect on the many varied non-negotiables from a wide range of guests including Eddie Howe, Owen O’Kane and Courntey Black. 


They discuss their own non-negotiables and how they have evolved since the beginning of the podcast.


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