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Aug 2019
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011 - Are You Suffering? Try This!

Anthony De Mello/The DeMello Spirituality Center
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Think of anything that's causing you pain, worry or anxiety. First, can you see the desire under that suffering? Make no mistake, there’s something you desire keenly or else you wouldn’t be suffering. What is that desire? Second, it isn’t simply a desire; there’s an identification made. You have said to yourself, “The very well-being of my existence is tied ... Show More
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