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Feb 2023
13m 6s

Fake It till You Make It

PATRICK KING
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00:01:27 In 2019, Matthew Berry and Steven Brown did research on the vocal tones

00:06:14 Jo Emerson is a confidence coach

00:07:10 Watch Your Body Language

00:08:33 Maintain Comfortable Eye Contact

00:09:26 Dress the Part

00:10:38 Develop Your Personal Sense of Poise

• Assertiveness is something you can fake till you make! Be mindful of your body language (stand tall and take up space), maintain comfortable eye contact, fine-tune your personal sense of style (whatever that is), and practice the habits of a poised, composed person (such as gracefully accepting compliments).

#EyeContact #GenuineConfidence #JoEmerson #MatthewBerry #KarenPine #StevenBrown #BeingAssertive—OrAtLeastHowToFakeItTillYouMakeIt #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #StandUpForYourself

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