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Feb 2023
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EP323 - Exploring New Frontiers: The Ben...

Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.d, Psychology Of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
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Welcome to episode 323 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amanda Louder. In this episode, we discuss ways you can start to engage with roleplay, learning to better communicate with your partner, and how small things like props can make a big difference. 

 

Amanda Louder is a Certified Life Coach who empowers women to embrace their sexuality while maintaining strong relationships with themselves and God.  

  

In addition to being a coach, Amanda is also a wife to Kevin, and mom and stepmom to 5 kids, ranging in ages from 13-22. Amanda knows just how challenging it can be for modern Christian families to find a balance between traditional values and leading an enjoyable life filled with meaningful connections.  

 

When she's not coaching or catering to her family, you'll likely find Amanda at home enjoying one of her favorite hobbies: reading books, watching sports games involving loved ones; fishing by the lake; or camping under open skies surrounded by nature.  

  

Learn more about what motivates this inspiring woman through @AmandaLouderCoaching on Instagram, her 'Sex For Saints' podcast series dedicated to talking about sex and marriage topics or visit her website. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How Amanda became involved in this line of work  
  • Learning to better communicate with your partner 
  • The importance of building and expanding on trust in a relationship 
  • Tips for ways you can start to engage with roleplay  
  • How small things like props can make a big difference 
  • Making sure that consent is working both ways 
  • The benefits of the stop light system for engaging in new sexual activities  
  • Maintaining Christian values while having a good sex life 



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