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Feb 2023
45m 57s

Authority Is More Important Than Social ...

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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Influence comes down to a person's level of authority. When someone is perceived as having power, status, and worth, others readily follow them and comply with them. Authority isn't just a matter of position. It's also a personal quality. When people attempt to develop their influence or authority, they tend to focus on learning social skills and changing ... Show More
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