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Feb 2023
39m 24s

Life Coaches

Kristen and Jolenta
About this episode
On the very first episode of How to Be Fine, the ladies dive into the unregulated world of the life coaching industry. Plus, they offer up advice on living in the present and reconnecting with friends.   Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't ... Show More
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