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Feb 2023
14m 57s

Ask yourself: Why am I yelling at my kid...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
About this episode
Send us a text We all yell because...we are human. We have moments when we lose our cool and our kids can also have these moments. However, in today's episode, I would like to walk you through a process I did to control my own yelling. If you are yelling more than you would like at your child, listen to today's episode for a few minutes. It will help you ... Show More
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