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Feb 2023
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Does vulnerability increase love and con...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
What does it take to feel love and connection? What does it take to show love and connection? Is vulnerability the path? What exactly does it mean? Can you have a strong, loving relationship without the need to be so exposed emotionally? I do my best to answer these questions in this episode.  
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