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Feb 2023
44m 39s

IFS and Notice, kNow, and Need with Jenn...

Tammy Sollenberger
About this episode

On today's episode I chat with Jenna Riemersma about her chapter in the upcoming book "Altogether Us."

We talk about:

  • An IFS Shorthand: Notice, kNow and Need
  • Moving Towards our own Parts
  • Moving Towards our Parts in Relationship with others (as a therapists/helping professional, Friend, Parent, and Partner)
  • Moving Towards before we Turn Towards, especially in difficult relationships

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Pre-order the Ebook here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.

A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home

Find out more about Jenna here: Jenna Riemersma

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My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books

You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them!

You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page.

I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic.

Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com.

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Enjoy! 

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