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Feb 2023
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Ep #236: Your Thoughts About Your Desire...

KIRSTIN SARFDE
About this episode

Do you ever desire something and then think you shouldn’t or that you don’t want to? I can be frustrating when that happens and to make matters worse, it’s not going to change your desire. So in this episode, I want to help you to stop judging your desires and stop shaming yourself for having them. I’ll also show you how you can change your desires if you want to. Listen in to find out how.

 

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