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Feb 2023
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How To FIND & KEEP Real Love! | Jay Shet...

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About this episode

We spend years struggling through relationships. Relationships with family, friends, co-workers are all so challenging. When it comes to romantic relationships we often live by a different set of rules and expectations that can leave us in a whirlwind of frustration wondering why something that started so amazing eventually isn’t so amazing.

Instead of giving up and checking out of your relationship mentally and emotionally, Jay Shetty has joined Lisa to discuss his latest book, 8 Rules of Love which includes so much more than just 8 rules. Jay Shetty shares the lessons and experiences he’s picked up from his marriage and time coaching others on how to have deeper and more meaningful relationships.

This episode is packed with strategies and tactics that will reframe your approach to dating and finding the love of your life, or maintaining the relationship you’ve already started.


Some fire takeaways you don’t want to miss today include:

What dating to impress and “attract” the right person means for your relationship

Jay’s 3 date rule to go from knowing someone casually to being long term

3 relationship roles we all play and how it affects our partner

Why you relationship fighting style is as important as your love language

Jay’s 4 E’s for growing deeper intimacy with your partner


Check out Jay Shetty’s latest book, 8 Rules of Love: https://www.amazon.com/Rules-Love-How-Find-Keep/dp/1982183063


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Website: https://jayshetty.me/

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/

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