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May 2021
1h 7m

The hidden emotions that may be inside y...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
Most people aren't taught emotional intelligence in their upbringing. And because of that, there are often lingering negative emotions hanging around inside us that might need to be addressed if we're going to experience a life without the burden of anxiety, depression, and emotional triggers. Getting out of anxiety and depression are often not easy tasks, b ... Show More
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