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Dec 2022
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Your child isn't misbehaving, they are d...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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Send us a text The word I would like you to remember today is "dysregulated". Is my child dysregulated? Am I dysregulated? How can I regulate my child? The reason why I am chatting about this in today's podcast is that I attended this outdoor event this week and as the night went on and the children around me clearly became dysregulated, they started acting ... Show More
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