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Jan 2020
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Why do good, reasonable, intelligent wom...

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
About this episode

Why do we always date the bad guy? Why is he all that we attract? Why can’t we “just meet a nice guy!?” Speaking of nice guy, why is it that he always finishes last? 

This episode we unpack it all and talk about how you can break the cycle and find your very own nice guy.

We also have another “accidentally unfiltered” story and we can’t get enough of these so keep them coming please! 


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