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Jun 2016
7m 51s

How to Know if He’s a “Good Guy”

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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You’re over the “bad boys,” but you don’t really want the boring “Mr. Too Nice” either. So what should you be looking for? A “good guy!” In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I’ll tell you the two traits all “good guys” have, and how to tell if the man you like has them. The next guy you give your heart to will treat you well, but still keep you interested in the long run.

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