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Oct 2015
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Fan Mail Friday #34 | Alt Girls, Nice Gu...

THE ART OF CHARM
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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #34! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend!In this episode:How do you deal with an overwhelming sense of envy that springs up whenever you encounter someone with more talent, better looks, or some other perk of an imagined "good life" that you feel y ... Show More
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