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Nov 2022
58m 37s

My Therapy Session with Esther Perel

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About this episode

Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there anything worse than being cheated on?

Abbie chats to her icon (aka her Lord and Saviour): World renowned Psychotherapist, Esther Perel.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield www.instagram.com/abbiechatfield

Guest: Esther Perel https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/

Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia https://www.instagram.com/lemzakharia/

Video Producer: Oscar Gordon https://www.instagram.com/oscargordon/

Videographer: Amy Code

Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh

Special thanks to Mandy Catalano

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