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Apr 2021
52m 6s

Why Conversations Go Wrong

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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Do you ever struggle to communicate with your mom? Or feel like you and your spouse sometimes speak different languages? We talk with linguist Deborah Tannen about how our conversational styles can cause unintended conflicts, and what we can do to communicate more effectively with the people in our lives. If you like our work, please try to support us! See ... Show More
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