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Nov 2022
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#550 - Dr James Cantor - The World Of Un...

Chris Williamson
About this episode

Dr James Cantor is a clinical psychologist and sexologist specialising in hypersexuality and paraphilias.

There are a broad range of things that turn humans on. Some are common, some are uncommon and some are very illegal. James' study of paraphilias exposes him to some of the world's most interesting and unusual sexual desires with the goal of working out why they exist.

Expect to learn how asexuality could evolve at all, why some able-bodied people feel that they should be amputees, why adults like to be dressed up as babies, the link between left-handedness and child abuse, what James thinks about depression in the trans community, why it's become increasingly impossible to have conversations about dangerous sexual desires and much more...

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