Let’s get kinky! Today’s episode is a compilation of some of my favorite clips about the psychology of kink, BDSM, and fetishes. We’re going to revisit my interviews with Dr. Jim Pfaus (Episode 56), filmmaker and former professional dominatrix Stavroula Toska (Episode 72), and sex therapist Shamyra Howard (Episode 8). Some of the topics we ... Show More
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Episode 536: Was The Bridgerton Era As Sexy As We Think?
Shows like Bridgerton invite us to imagine the past as a time of elaborate courtship, forbidden desire, and passionate romance. But was the past really as sexy as we like to think it was? In today’s show, we’re going to separate fact from fantasy when it comes to sex in the Bridg ... Show More
32m 19s
Sep 11
Episode 535: Why Kink Works For Neurodiverse Brains
For many neurodivergent people, BDSM offers something conventional sexual practices often don’t, including clear communication, explicit expectations, structure, and the freedom to tailor experiences to their own needs. In this episode, we’re going to explore why people with ADHD ... Show More
34m 25s
Sep 8
Episode 534: The Complicated Relationship Between BDSM And Mental Health
BDSM can be a powerful source of pleasure, connection, and self-expression. But when mental health challenges enter the picture, they can also raise important questions about consent, communication, triggers, and emotional safety. So how can people navigate kink in ways that supp ... Show More
32m 8s
Feb 2024
Ep. 117: Kink, Fetish & Forbidden Pleasure
Hello! Please feel free to text me here but you will have to type your first and last name, email and phone number in your message for me to be able to respond. I look forward to connecting! Sincerely, Dr. BawaOn today's episode of Dr. Sex Fairy we are spicing things up with a qu ... Show More
6m 40s
Mar 2023
Squirting, Spandex & Kinks
Have you ever been into something so strongly, you couldn’t stop fantasizing about it? Maybe it’s getting spanked or tied up, to name a couple common turn-ons. Whatever your turn-on is, does it arouse you so much that you just have to make it a reality? Or are you apprehensive to ... Show More
46m 31s
Aug 2024
From First Dates to BDSM Breaks: The Evolution of Desire
Hey, sexy listeners! 😘 In this episode, Layla and Sir Inq catch up and dive into some spicy topics like spending on the first date—are you a 'simp' or simply generous? They also get into the importance of authenticity in relationships, sharing how genuine gestures of kindness ca ... Show More
1h 26m
Feb 2024
Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think
When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensi ... Show More
33m 27s
Nov 2020
Sadomasochism and Trauma for Kinksters!
Can Kink and BDSM be a pathway for healing and self-realization? Devi speaks with kinky queer Sex Educator, Jaki Griot about using BDSM and Kink for greater self-awareness, self-connection, and healing!In this episode find out:1. What is Sadomasochism?2. How does this relate to t ... Show More
54m 48s
Oct 2023
EP56: Sex Tapes, Sex Noises, and Stinky Partners
Ask and ye shall receive! We’re answering even more of your sex-related questions! This week, we’re talking about sex tapes, sex noises, smelly partners, connecting emotionally after sex, feeling bad if your partner doesn’t finish, masturbation shame, and so much more. Listen to ... Show More
54m 17s
Jul 2025
Safe Words & Spankings: Inside The Kinky Coaching Bedroom
Ready for a whip-smart convo that’ll tie you up in all the best ways? 😉 Miss Kay returns with her pal Stacy to talk about launching her “Top to Bottom Coaching” biz, and honey—it’s hot. They chat about newbies, naughty goals, kink confidence, and how exploring pleasure can unloc ... Show More
34m 45s