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Oct 2021
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Episode 56: Where Do Sexual Fetishes Com...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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People can develop sexual fetishes for virtually anything. In fact, it’s not a stretch to say that if you can think of it, somebody probably has a fetish for it. So why is that? How do fetishes develop in the first place? Are some people more likely to develop them than others? And what role does porn play in all of this? For the answers to these questions, ... Show More
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