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Aug 2021
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finding your aesthetic: trends or a pers...

SEPHY AND WING
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are you self-aware, or are you just self-conscious? join sephy & wing for an on-brand convo about whether personal branding is a waste of time, and why your obsession with representing yourself is making you lose yourself in the process. in this ep of Goes Without Saying we're spiralling about our attachments to style and trends, and exploring how the ego intersects with specific aesthetics. from limiting attachments to labels, to finding flexibility in personal identity, we're here to remind you that you're a ever-changing, fluid being that can never be defined by a brand or aesthetic. stunning!


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