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Aug 2020
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SEPHY AND WING
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sick of being choked by boys with no bed-frames and dirty fingernails? in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're breaking up with bad sex and taking you to the mysterious promised land of ~feminist sex~ ! can feminist sex exist in a patriarchal society? is there room for genuine female empowerment in heteronormative relationships? why do men benefit from sex more than women? join us (sephy & wing) as we get down and dirty, discussing sexuality, power, orgasms, and... shrek?

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