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Nov 2022
33m 25s

Signs You Need to Deal With Your Trauma

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com
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Q: I have a history of trauma from my past, but I never realized how much I do today stems from what I’ve been through in the past until I started reading Are You Really OK? What are some sings that I have unprocessed trauma from the past I need to deal with? We’re taking all your questions on our new ASK A COUNSELOR series!! We’re doing this series because ... Show More
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