logo
episode-header-image
Apr 2021
54m 43s

Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex ...

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode
Renowned clinical sex therapist and best-selling author, Ian Kerner Ph.D. joins me today to talk about sex scripts, why fantasies are important for a relationship, the dynamics of kink, porn as “homework” and how to get into a flow state during sex. Dr. Kerner is the author of the legendary book She Comes First, “the thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woma ... Show More
Up next
Jul 28
What Actually Counts as Cheating?
Throwback to another one of my favorite conversations! Have you ever wondered where the line actually is between loyalty and betrayal? In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Scott Lyons to unpack the messy, subjective world of infidelity in 2025. We get into the questions couples alm ... Show More
50m 32s
Jul 24
Debunking the Biggest Myths About Sex and Desire
In this episode, I'm busting the biggest myths that are quietly running your relationship and your intimate life… the idea that men want it all the time, that women don't think about it nearly as much, that low libido means something's broken, that toys replace your partner, that ... Show More
36m 57s
Jul 21
How to Ask Your Body What It Actually Needs
In this episode, somatic practitioner Dolly Josette (aka The Pleasure Muse) is teaching us something that changed my life… how to actually listen to what our bodies are trying to tell us. We walk through a body anchor meditation to help you find your most grounded position, then ... Show More
54m 11s
Recommended Episodes
Apr 2021
EP227 - Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex with Dr. Ian Kerner
tail spinning
36m 33s
May 2021
Reviving, Repairing, and Revving Up Your Sex Life feat. Dr. Ian Kerner
It's episode 169 (!!) and we brought back one of our favorite and most impactful guests, psychotherapist and best-selling author Dr. Ian Kerner, for another important discussion about sex. This time around, we're discussing the "sex script" and some of the main issues that plague ... Show More
1h 35m
Nov 2020
EP204 - Rekindling Your Sexual Spark with Ian Kerner, PhD
<div> <p><span>Welcome to episode 204 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I&#39;m delighted to welcome Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Ian speaks with me about the psychological reasons men have low desire, the negative consequences shame can have on your sex lif ... Show More
28m 22s
Jun 2023
A sex therapist's secret to rediscovering your spark | Ian Kerner
Sex therapist Ian Kerner hears about a common problem from his patients: "failure to launch," or the inability to build and maintain sexual momentum. What's the solution? Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or reconnect with your own desire, Kerner s ... Show More
13m 18s
Mar 2025
Your Guide to Better Sex, Intimacy, & Love From a World-Leading Sex Therapist
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. </p><p>If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you. </p><p>Here to ... Show More
1h 20m
Dec 2016
74: Let's Talk About Sex
In today’s episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to deal with mismatched sexual desires in a relationship. (#1 reason couples struggle sexually in relationships) Reducing sexual anxiety in oneself and in a relationship. The importance of sexual knowledge ... Show More
49m 15s
Oct 2021
#19: Shh... We're Talking About Sex
When was the last time you and your partner honestly talked about sex? Have you ever even talked about it? I'm joined by sex therapist ... who answers all the questions some of us are too afraid to ask. How often should I be having sex? Is it ok that I'm not enjoying it as much a ... Show More
37m 34s
Oct 2024
The Journey To Sexual Mastery
Hey, lovers! 💖 Ready to boost your bedroom game? 💥 In this episode, I’m joined by Erik Everhard, former adult film star turned sexual skills coach, to dive deep into the keys to sexual resilience and performance. We discuss overcoming performance anxiety, unlocking your “sexual ... Show More
1h 16m
Aug 2024
455: Sex Positions
We all know the standard: missionary, doggystyle, woman on top but have you ever heard of these...the Stand and Deliver, the Pearly Gates, the Pretzel? Maybe you're scratching your head right now. We hope you're at least intrigued and ready to join us on this fun, playful episode ... Show More
32m 12s