Renowned clinical sex therapist and best-selling author, Ian Kerner Ph.D. joins me today to talk about sex scripts, why fantasies are important for a relationship, the dynamics of kink, porn as “homework” and how to get into a flow state during sex. Dr. Kerner is the author of the legendary book She Comes First, “the thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woma ... Show More
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How To Ask For What You Want in Bed: Fantasy Edition
In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m diving into the truth about fantasies… why we have them, why so many of us are afraid to share them, and how to talk about them with a partner without pressure or shame. I break down what fantasies actually are (and what they’re not), w ... Show More
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Apr 24
Is Your Sex Life “Normal”?
In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m answering your real, unfiltered questions, covering everything from casual sex and whether it’s actually right for you, to performance anxiety and what really happens to your sex life after the honeymoon phase ends. We get into how to t ... Show More
40m 51s
Apr 21
Missionary Isn’t Boring, You’re Just Doing It Wrong
I know what you're thinking. Missionary? Really? But hear me out, because I genuinely believe missionary might be the most underrated position in existence, and the reason most people are bored by it has nothing to do with the position itself. It has everything to do with what th ... Show More
32m 24s
Nov 2020
EP204 - Rekindling Your Sexual Spark with Ian Kerner, PhD
<div> <p><span>Welcome to episode 204 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Ian speaks with me about the psychological reasons men have low desire, the negative consequences shame can have on your sex lif ... Show More
28m 22s
Jun 2023
Episode 66: Sex, Intimacy & Orgasms: Why it's challenging & what to do about it! with Irene Fehr
Sexual dynamics between men and women are complicated! It can seem like one big cosmic joke when we try to figure out how to have a healthy, thriving, mutually satisfying sex life. If you're in a heterosexual relationship, or you would like to be, this episode is going to change ... Show More
37m 49s
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Is Low Sex Drive Ruining Your Relationship? What to do! | E370
Is low sex drive ruining your relationship? All long term couples experience sexual dry spells, whether it's due to stress, hormonal changes, emotional disconnection, or simply being too tired to get frisky at the end of a long day (pro tip: sex does not have to happen at bed tim ... Show More
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<div> <p><span>Welcome to episode 227 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome back </span><span>Dr.</span><span> Ian Kerner to the podcast. In this episode, </span><span>Dr.</span> <span>Kerner talks to me about his new book;</span> <em><span>So</span></em><em ... Show More