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Oct 2022
56m 4s

188: I'm Not Attracted To The Men Who Wa...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

What do you do when you're not attracted to men who want you, and the men you ARE attracted to are unwilling to commit?

In life, as we get older, we can find the dating world changing around us. We want different things, we're not as young and carefree as we were in our twenties, and we feel like we want something serious in this phase of our life.

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson go deep on the dilemma of attracting the wrong people when you want to get serious, how to get excited to date again after facing painful life events, and what to do if you're facing the possibility of never finding the love you're looking for.

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