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Oct 2022
40m 26s

Why You've Been GHOSTED

Violet Benson
About this episode
Violet dives into why people who hurt you pretend like you're the bad person, what to do when you've been ghosted, why you didn't see it coming and why it hurts so much, steps to move on, and the type of person that ghosting affects the MOST 
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