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Oct 2022
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Will Your Relationship FAIL? - Ask These...

Impact Theory
About this episode

The uncertainty of dating and being part of a relationship that you want to make last forever causes many of us so much anxiety. The doubts if this person is for real, can you trust them, is this relationship as important to them as it is to you?

You don’t have to keep living in fear of not knowing if the person you are dating is the love of your life forever or if it’s doomed to fail cause you’re missing all the signs and avoiding the right conversations,

Today, let’s break down 9 questions you can ask your partner to determine if you’re placing you heart, your time, and your energy in the right place with the right person.

For hard truth telling and relationship revelations around self worth, value and accountability, check out the full episode with Sarah Jakes Roberts: https://youtu.be/IbriO6QIxoU

To hear more Red Flags from relationship expert, Matthew Hussey, check out this full episode with Lisa exposing if He’s Wasting Your Time: https://youtu.be/ny2KL8mYyFE

Get all the juicy tips for communicating with your partner more openly about sex with the sex expert, Emily Morse, a.k.a. Sex with Emily here: https://youtu.be/KLukArHg-vk

Relationship expert, Stephan Speaks, exposes all the ways men are wasting your time in this interview with Lisa, and you don’t want to miss this: https://youtu.be/dqEke-0o9y8


SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to the Relationship Test

0:18 | Is It Even A Relationship Without Actual Trust?

5:41 | Should Your Partner Value Anything Above You?

9:58 | What Deal Breakers Would End Everything?

17:59 | Does Your Partner Feel Supported?

34:19 | Do You Envision A Future Together?

41:55 | What’s Missing From Your Sex Life?

51:51 | If Your BFF Flirted With Your Partner!?

52:24 | Lisa Questions Tom On The Spot

1:00:48 | Does He Want An Independent Woman?


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