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Sep 2022
33m 30s

How the need to belong drives human beha...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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The desire to belong is a fundamental part of human nature. Geoffrey Cohen, PhD, of Stanford University, talks about how feeling like an outsider can harm us; why threats to belonging drive problems as varied as achievement gaps and political polarization; and how to boost people’s sense of belonging, especially among those most at risk of feeling like outsi ... Show More
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