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Show notes | PDF & Infographic | Free audiobook | Get the Guy reveals the secrets of the male mind. The fundamentals of dating and mating complement these secrets. The outcome is an approach to helping women find lasting relationships.

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StoryShots Book Summary of Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve by Matthew Hussey


Matthew Hussey's book advises women to maintain their femininity while being confident and independent in order to attract a compatible partner by actively putting themselves in social situations to meet eligible men.


Matthew Hussey discusses the importance of women embracing their femininity in relationships and not losing it despite being strong and independent. He argues that men are attracted to women's femininity on a fundamental level because it allows them to feel masculine and fulfill their innate desire to provide and protect. Hussey advises women to let men feel needed and appreciated by accepting gestures like offering a jacket, regardless of whether they actually need the help.


The author explains that high-value women possess qualities like confidence, independence, integrity, and femininity. Confident women know their worth, are clear about their needs, and won't settle for superficial signs of value. Independent women live fulfilling lives and don't need a man to complete them. Women with integrity uphold their values. And femininity allows men to feel like providers and protectors.


Hussey argues that women shouldn't leave finding love to chance. They should prioritize meeting more potential partners by building a lifestyle conducive to that. He also encourages adopting a "chooser" mindset, being open to giving men a chance instead of closing off opportunities.



(00:00) Introduction: Embracing Femininity

(01:01) The Modern Woman's Dilemma: Balancing Roles

(01:29) Understanding Masculinity and Femininity Today

(01:55) StoryShots: Free Audiobook Summaries

(02:50) Get the Guy: Book Overview

(03:52) About Matthew Hussey: Relationship Expert

(04:26) StoryShot #1: Increase Your Chances in Love

(05:14) StoryShot #2: Be a High-Value Woman

(05:49) Key Traits of High-Value Women

(05:59) Femininity: A Deeper Dive

(13:10) Conclusion: Embracing Your True Self


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Entities: Google, Apple, Audible, Matthew Hussey, Cosmopolitan, Eva Longoria, Oxford University, The Guardian, Get the Guy, StoryShots

Topics: finding a partner, gender roles, Male Psychology, Femininity, confidence, dating advice, gender equality, Independence


First published on 22 Sep 2022.

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