#56. Joe (Boyfriend-of-the-Pod) joins Payton to answer listener questions about relationships (& situationships). FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: htt ... Show More
Yesterday
What I Needed to Give Up in Order to Gain Peace (*somewhat controversial)
#259. A re-release of a favorite, Things I Left Behind to Gain Peace, and some of these may be rather controversial. In every era of my life, whenever I notice I’m a little on-edge, I realize I’m more often in need of releasing what doesn’t suit me rather than adding to my life. ... Show More
1h 4m
Aug 6
How Hard Can It Be? Boys Do It — & Other Musings with MadsMitch
#258. Maddy has been one of my favorite people to follow on socials for years, so when I found out we were crossing paths in Los Angeles, I had to have her on NTS. We’re chatting about her fresh (somewhat traumatizing?) start in LA, the parts of going viral nobody posts about, wh ... Show More
57m 30s
Jul 30
The Return of the Party Girl
#257. Why is the party girl suddenly everywhere again? This week I trace the shift from clean girl and tradwife aesthetics to a messier, freer moment — the culture, the politics, the history of partying through hard times — plus the party girl commandments and my hoe theory. FOLL ... Show More
53m 49s
Jul 2025
Wanna Know How To Date? Ask A Man!
Real-life single gal Louise is joined by listener favorite, single stud J.D., for more insight into how men think, and this time he's answering YOUR questions! J.D. advises women on a dating habit they should stop doing on dates because it's not as "charming" as they might assume ... Show More
26m 49s
Dec 2020
EP 0034 - Questions and Answers
Schedule a Complimentary Coaching Sessionhttps://joeryan.com/Empowering Individuals To Break Free From Childhood Programming, Emotional Paralysis, and Family System Roles. This is not traditional talk therapy. Inner Work Coaching is a raw, honest, personalized experience.It’s Not ... Show More
24m 17s